I AM…………

I am the work of the marvelous God that was created purposeful

I am a 5^th born child

I am the Public Relations graduate

I am making history and changing pupils life

I am all out to develop my community

I am one of South Africans benefiting from the freedom and youthful democracy

I am what I believe I wanted to be

I am the victim of South African crime

I am the lover of food who finds peace in the kitchen

I am an explorer, traveling defines me better ……

…. And most of all, I am an African child who is fearless and determined to make her life in the media world,

I am what you see!!!

If you could do it all over again, would you change anything?

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The first words that we utter from our distraughted mouths is “Can I have another chance, I promise to do better”. This is usually said when we’ve messed up begging for an opportunity to fix whatever have went wrong at that time but the question still remains, if given the chance would you change anything?

Well with me, I would change everything and start over on a clean slate. Receiving my research methodology marks made me see life in a different level. My world shuttered at that very moment and I just thought of where I come from and where I’m going. I am determined to make a great change in building my career and that will begin by changing the figures I got for my project and turn them around.

At this very moment, I can only change my grades and make sure I excel in all my subjects as I need to pass this degree. 

List your top 200 achievements

Living my life is one of the biggest achievements attained from the man above, listing my top 200 is not going to be an easy task, only the most important will be highlighted as I believe my life is a never ending journey and I am grateful for all I have achieved thus far. My achievements are as follows:

§  My first breath.

§  My first walking steps.

§  My first uttered word.

§  First day at school.

§  My first pass school report, my parents were pleased.

§  My matric dance, because I pulled it through at the last minute.

§  My matric pass, some people don’t cut it through.

§  My first cellphone.

§  Owning my first Identity document and passport, felt like a real South African citizen.

§  Bank account.

§  My first trip to Cape Town, took Greyhound Bus was so over the moon. #Yaaay

§  My first University entry, some of my friends didn’t have this opportunity.

§  Acceptance to study Public Relations.

§  Securing Financial Aid for my studies.

§  When I became residential chairlady for the students, and was awarded certificate for the job well done after my term.

§  Attending HIV/AIDS workshop, I got to learn more about the chronicle illness.

§  Voting for the first time during the 2009, National Elections.

§  Going to Sun City, what a beautiful place it is.

§  2008 I attended the Nokia Face of Africa.

§  Oooh no!!! How can I forget my first time of flying, though I was going to die?

§  When I did my internship at the SABC, dream come true and priceless joy.

§  Taking my first driving lessons.

§  When I worked for SABC I had an opportunity to be interviewed on their Youth show (Ligwalagwala FM)

§  Doing motivational talks and give career guidance to High school learners.

§  My first trip to Mozambique, it was just me and my sister Ayanda, unforgettable memories. Zambia and Ghana you’re next.  

§  My graduation day 19 April 2012, it’s the overall best having my Mom, sister and friends to share this joy with me.

My life is still rolling and I can say there is still more to be achieved. 

If you had to teach something, what would you teach?

I have never thought of teaching as a career for myself but the more I live the bug also grow faster in me.  Social media proved to be part of our daily lives; we eat sleep and breathe it, a lot of things are happening there and someone has to take a stand and teach all the users on how it is suppose to work.

Social networks gives people the platform to be what they want to be and some make mistakes that cost them their careers and families. We seem not to know what to say at a particular time. People get attacked because of things they say on facebook, twitter or other social network, they need to be taught on how to behave when they are online.

Social psychology and media studies will be the best subject for me to teach all the social media users staring from the fun of being online to the challenges that they will encounter when time goes by. There will be consequences and it will be best that they get to know about some of them, which will prepare them for the challenges.

It will be best not to post information when they are emotional, and mustn’t be used as a platform to discuss their private lives. Your audience needs to understand you and must have relevant information that you share with each other as it will help you in the future.

Social Media can either make you or destroy you.

What motivates me?

I am from a very small family, and my background proved to be not the blissful one. I had to start taking care of myself at a very young age, learnt to be independent and decided on which career path I wanted to take. I had to give life a chance, so I learnt to approached it positively and be the leading example in my community.

I always wanted to be different, to achieve that from my community was to study because most the people did not have University qualifications. My dreams to study succeed and many youngsters decided to follow on my footsteps because they knew where I was coming from but I have succeeded to make better life for myself and lead by example. 

Kids who take education serious and those who manage to beat the life obstacles despite of where they come from are my day to day inspiration. What your parents have become in life does not guarantee that you will also be like them. You are your own self and responsible of what you will become.

We need to stop feeling sorry for ourselves and do something about it; there will always be relevant people that you can speak to in terms of career guidance and what you would like to be. Make life better by helping others so that this world will be a far better place to be. 

Family

 

We are like any other family, we have our up’s and downs but that doesn’t mean we must stop loving and supporting each other. You can make friends as much as you can but your family will always be the best’s friends one can ever make.

When it’s bad you turn to them for support and so when it’s all good you want them to rejoice with you because you are certain that those people will never wish anything bad to happen to you unlike some of you friends. Our families always want to see us doing well. It said to my culture that if one is successful in the family, it belongs to all of us and they will have to help the rest of us better ourselves.

No matter how little your family can have, you still need to love, respect and show them support on whatever they will be doing. As the saying goes” we can’t choose our families but we can choose our friends.

Your family is your god’s gift; they need to be appreciated every now and then.

10 most unexpected consequences for being online

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Online and Social media has proven to be part of our day to day lives, personal and business wise as one cannot go a day without being online and we rely to it for all the necessary information. 

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Staying online can be beneficial for any business as it will provide them honest opinions from the public because people are more vocal online than when they are approached direct, the unexpected consequences can be as follows:

1.      People usually provide false information

2.      It’s likely for one to find True Love

3.      People may not be understanding as you will be

4.      An online shared story can change someone’s life (Inspired)

5.      People can be more personal than they can be on a face-to-face conversation.

6.      Companies now prefer to advertise jobs online.

7.      It’s a very good platform for stalking people.

8.      Catching up with the language used, as it is different to the one of our normal day to day lives.

9.      People you don’t know can easily attack you

10. Strangers become your friends

We go online for different reasons, and one is likely to somehow change or understand something better because of what they got online.